Manifestors don't get invited

I've always found it funny how many projectors secretly wish that they were manifestors. They resent the fact that they have to wait for the invitation and wish that they could just go and make sh*t happen. Especially when they first find out that they are projectors, they feel a bit of fear or bitterness about it.

But let me tell you, being a Manifestor has its own set of challenges.

At first, I was like - hell yes, I'm a Manifestor!

But then, when you begin to realize what comes along with it, it's validating but not quite so exciting.

See, here's the thing. Projectors, even though you have to wait for the invitation, when an invitation does arise, that means you are welcomed in. Your guidance is desired. Your gifts are wanted, and you feel seen and recognized. Because when you are invited and welcomed in to share your insights, that also means you are valued and worthy and trusted.

You don't have to go out and start things on a whim and hope it goes smoothly, and you get a damn invitation.

Must be nice 🤣 (kidding!)

You know when manifestors get welcomed in like that?

Neverrrr.

We have to invite and welcome our own damn selves 🤣

Now people definitely do invite me to things like their kids' birthdays and stuff… but I did have a moment where I noticed that one of my good friends was not inviting me to places, and I asked her why, and she was like 'Oh I just assumed that you would just come if you wanted to come!' which honestly would be very much in alignment, but still 🤣

And then you Generators… you get to respond to things. And your sacral is like a magic 8-ball 🤣 So things show up in your awareness, and you get to respond to them. It's like getting little gifts from the universe to unwrap and see where it leads.

But for us Manifestors… we just got to jump in and do the things when we get the urge. And we have zero idea how whatever we do, is going to land. Some people might love it, might piss off other people, or some people might hate it. It's a crapshoot. Not everything we create and start is adored by the masses.

Now don't get me wrong, invitations do exist for us but in a very different way. It's often because people want us to share about things that we have started. Not our deep wisdom. Not our intuition. It's just different. People want to know about our manifestor-ness. People want to know about us, not what we see.

So anyways, we always think the grass is greener on the other side, but it never really is ❤️

Every type has its beauty and its pain.

Projectors, next time the 'waiting for the invitation' is getting frustrating, you can be glad that it's coming and then you won't have to guess. The invitation will be there, and you will be welcomed in.

And I will be glad to follow my urges and make shit happen and attract some people, and piss off others. 🤣

It's just how we do ❤️

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